People tend to lump Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers into the
same category, but in reality, they are two separate fetishes, although the
line between is very thin.
Adult babies are people who like to dress up like a baby, be
treated like a baby and will most likely want to roleplay that their partner is
their mommy. The person who is the baby
will also act like a baby, crying, whining, giggling, playing, cooing, etc.
They want to be treated as if they are an infant.
Infantilism is also what this is called. It isn’t necessarily a fetish but a way of
life for these adult babies. This would
include having large baby items to play with such as a crib to sleep in, adult
diapers, larger baby clothing (made for adults).
Sex while in the adult baby frame of mind is highly
unlikely. While adult babies may get
sexually aroused while playing baby, they feel it isn’t necessarily appropriate
to have sex with his “mommy” partner. No
sexual talk or play is required or wanted.
Some adult babies might want to be pampered while others may
want to be scolded. Every adult baby is
slightly different in what they might desire.
Diaper lovers are just that, people who love diapers and
other infantile things. Other infantile things include rattles, baby wipes,
baby powder, booties, plastic panties, etc. Diaper lovers fetish usually
includes either themselves or having their partner in diapers. This fetish also can and will most likely involve
sex or masturbation while in the diapers.
With Diaper Lovers, they aren’t babies, they don’t usually
want to be treated as a baby, or have a mommy type figure play with them, they
simply love diapers and all that’s involved.
There isn’t usually a roleplay that goes along with their fetish, but
instead, they simply like to talk about the diapers; how they feel, smell, etc.
An Adult Baby can be a Diaper lover as well and vice versa,
but some may just be one or the other, that is why they are lumped as ABDL.
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